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The First Day of the Rest of Your Life
Last Updated on Friday, 1 January 2009 02:24 Written by Monica Friday, 1 January 2009 02:24
Today is the first day of the New Year. I thought it would be good if we could do something new. I thought we could start a theme. Mondays could be all about informational articles on drugs, laws and all else that involves drugs and alcohol in the state of Texas. Wednesdays could be a sort of discussion panel on some of the news and headlines involving the seriousness of drug and alcohol situations. Fridays could be sort of a free for all with support, encouragement and optimism. It is a new year and this blogger if full of optimism.
With that being said, how many of you are starting not only a new year but a new life free of drug and/or alcohol addiction? Congratulations! How many are perhaps just realizing that there is something missing or wrong and you want that new life without drugs controlling you? This is the perfect time to begin that new life.
It is not easy and any person who has ever had a drug or alcohol addiction and overcame it will tell you that. Your best bet is to get professional help in an environment that teaches you the tools you need to have a continually successful recovery. You will also learn what a support group is and that there are people out there who will help you even when you leave a treatment program.
Today is the first day of a new year and a new decade. Let it be the start of a new life, a second chance and do not come in third behind misery and depression. You can do it. Whether you are a Texan born and bred or any other fine young man or woman or teen from any state or country, look into your own eyes and the eyes of those who love you and you will see a person worth going the distance and fighting the fight for. Yes, you may have noticed there are a lot of cliches in this article, but it is a new year and why not go with the best cliches and an attitude filled with hope and optimism when it comes to a drug or alcohol addiction just as you would any other battle or resolution?
So while you have heard many times in many ways over the past few days the phrase Happy New Year, let it be added one more time in a setting that speaks truthfully, openly and honestly about drug addiction. Today is the first day of the rest o f your life. Make it the best year of your life as well. Happy New Year.
Tags: Alcohol, drug addiction, Happy New Year, resolutions | Posted under Texas Rehab | 1 Comment
People in Texas (and Everywhere) Care
Last Updated on Monday, 14 December 2009 01:23 Written by Monica Monday, 14 December 2009 01:23
I volunteer in my community and my church quite a bit because not only do I feel it is important to give back in some way but honestly? I feel just as good about it as the ones I am helping because I have been there in one way or another. Because of the type of volunteering I do, I run into a lot of people who have fallen on hard times and are fighting drug and alcohol addictions. Perhaps those addictions put them in the situations they find themselves in. Maybe they turned to the addictions to forget about their situations. The bottom line is, no matter how they got there, some of them are clearly addicted to drugs or alcohol.
I remember a few years back when a woman walked into the restaurant where I worked. She was hungry and obviously coming down from a high of some type. I fed her and paid for it. She sat there for several hours. I finally agreed to give her a ride to the mission in our city when I got off work. Some of the regular customers frowned on that but they knew me and knew it was just like me to do that.
The woman walked outside for a bit and soon a trooper came in that regularly had coffee and lunch as he patrolled the area. He said she had asked someone for money and started an argument and he had to talk to her and in the ensuing moments some heroin fell out of her shirt pocket. I was chastised by him and the regulars alike for what they thought could have been a bad situation for me.
Still, I thought long and hard about that woman. I called a friend who is a drug and alcohol counselor from my church. Something about her had touched me. She seemed isolated and alone and I knew she needed help. My friend was able to go and see her and part of her sentence was rehabilitation. She ended up grateful that she went to jail that night instead of to the mission because she had to stop cold turkey and then went straight from jail to drug treatment.
Our paths have not crossed during the time since but I did ask my friend about her the other day. As luck would have it, he had just heard from her. She had returned to her sister’s home, was still clean and going to support group meetings. She attends a different church than us with her sister.
Our paths are all intertwined in some way, whether we stop in a restaurant in north Texas, volunteer in our communities or feel at the end of our ropes. Interaction does not have to be negative. There are wonderful programs here in Texas that will help someone to get off whatever drug he or she is addicted to. There are programs to help you. Take the first step. You can reach out for help without having to go through an arrest or getting to a point of desperation. That person you dimly remember? That is you. If you did not care, you would not be looking at sites that encourage getting help. That alone shows you are worth getting help and there are wonderful treatment programs that will be happy to help you get that help. Because people in Texas (and everywhere) care.
Tags: Alcohol, drug addiction, drug and alcohol counselor | Posted under Texas Rehab | No Comments
Give Yourself the Gift of Getting Clean This Christmas
Last Updated on Friday, 11 December 2009 11:46 Written by Monica Friday, 11 December 2009 11:37
Christmas and New Year’s are coming. With the holidays comes more opportunities to drink and to take drugs. You can be in a party atmosphere and celebrating with friends and family, the perfect opportunity to hide a growing problem. Or you can be depressed as the holidays do make some of us and fall deeper into a drug addiction.
This time of year brings out old memories, sadness and pain as well as joy and celebration. But I am going to share a secret with you. The best gift you can give yourself and your loved ones is seeking help to overcome the addiction. The most important people in the world to give to are yourself and your family and friends.
Perhaps you are drinking heavily enough that family and friends have tried to talk to you about it. Take heed of their words. They are only opening themselves up to your anger and denial because they care. Admitting you have a problem does not mean you are unworthy, just the opposite. It means you care enough to make changes.
Maybe you have become addicted to drugs and you feel lonely and isolated. The truth is, drug and alcohol abuse are rampant in Texas and you can get help by calling a helpline or walking into a support group meeting practically any time of the day or night. People will support you, they will accept you and they will help you to help yourself.
The holidays are hard on some people and the support groups have more meetings during the holiday season than any other time of year. This writer lives in a town of about 100,000 people and there are 6 to 10 meetings a day all over town, for both alcohol and drug addiction.
Do not spend another holiday buried in drug addiction or alcoholism. Your pain is real but it can also be confronted and worked out. You will make friends and you will find that special person within yourself that you thought was lost. Whether you are alone or have family, it does not matter. Just as you would make the decision out of love for them, make it out of respect for yourself.
Giving yourself the ultimate gift in getting clean this year could turn itself around to where you can help someone else next Christmas who finds him or herself right where you are today. Isn’t that what Christmas is truly all about?
Tags: alcohol abuse, Christmas, drug addiction, New Year's | Posted under Texas Rehab | No Comments
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